the above image is like the glass half empty/half full example. no this is not a heart broken up, it is a broken heart that is mended together by the love of God, the authentic stuff: Agape! Thanks kali for her fb note post. haha. coz i kinda needed to read this & particularly on this day. http://www.usccb.org/nab/bible/1corinthians/1corinthians13.htm we r all afraid to love to some degree due to our past experiences & hurts which makes us feel less lovable & lose confidence. we have to know that God created us b/c He love us, so we are all indeed lovable. So that is a very good reason not to believe in Evolutionism coz if we do then we'll start to believe that we're not worth loving & that nobody really loves us. That is the biggest temptation!! we all have doubts about ourselves & others. it is only in having faith in God that we are able to overcome all those doubts & be able to Trust! Keep the Faith & Hope for the best!! even if u fail 99 out of the 100 times, that 1 out of 100 time of suceeding is still worth the 99 failures....well they aren't really failures at all, the just appear to be b/c they were learning experiences to allow u to suceed at the 100th time! i feel like God was trying to speak to me in a way, giving me the strength to try. it is only in loving that we are able to be gentle & kind. so now i know what i should do.....even if it doesn't work out I know that it won't b the end of the world. of course i will still feel a bit sad but i will also feel happy b/c i'll actually gain something & learn from the whole experience. i'll b glad that i tried. =0) i think that society made things too complicated....all those beliefs & theories on what love is, how it should be & how it all works, when Love is supposed to be very simple. The more simple it is, the better & truer! all those attraction theories, rules of how things should go like who should pay on which dates, when to call or whatever. i think they're good to know since some of us who are quite inexperienced in this area are kinda clueless. However, those rules should not be concentrated on too much as they are also a hazard of giving your true self freely. & the advise given on those popular magazines such as Cosmo & Askmen.com are total garbage!! i totally dislike them as it makes relationships feel like a game w/ those manipulation tactics. A lot of times those playing "hard to get" games backfires & burns harshly. it's like playing w/ fire/HCl. of course one should not be too needy & put all their energy on their loved one & lose themselves totally b/c that's not healthy. it even says that somewhere in the bible somewhere but i dunno exactly where yet, but i will search for it. coz if u put all ur energy into just that one person then it is selfish even though it doesn't appear like that on the surface. it is selfish b/c u neglect everything else in ur life such as your friends, your family, yourself & even God. as with everything in life, it has to have a balance, your physical health; your mind/emotions; your relationships with yourself, others & w/ God. all this is very hard stuff, the instructions are all there, all we have to do is follow them through no matter how difficult it is to put into practical application, we just need to pray to God to guide us all the way & never give up til the end & everything will be alright!! |